Track per-tool execution time statistics in session metadata. When a tool
call exceeds its adaptive threshold (2x historical max, min 120s default),
send a direct outbound notification to the user.
- ToolTimingMap: parse/serialize/record/threshold from session metadata
- StartSlowTimer: fires once per tool call, auto-cancels on completion
- Team config: slow_tool toggle (default on, always direct, never leader)
- UI: toggle in team settings with i18n (en/vi/zh)
- Store: add GetSessionMetadata to session store interface